I read an article published in the AARP Office of Academic Affairs (edited by Harry (Rick) Moody) about an experience someone had with hospice. It is a touching testimony to the power of hospice care:
“This past month saw the passing of one of my oldest and dearest friends, Charles, age 89. During the last weeks of his life, I was directly involved in care-giving, along with others, including the wonderful work of Hospice of Boulder, Colorado.
“Charles was bedbound while we had an unexpected snowstorm, covering the world in white. He looked out his window and said, ‘What a beautiful day to be disabled!’ It reminded me of George Vaillant’s work on lifespan development. He was quoted as saying that successful aging doesn’t depend on health or wealth, but rather on forgiveness and gratitude. Forgiveness and gratitude is what Charles displayed in the last weeks of his life.
“When I visited Charles he wondered why it took so long to die. I replied that maybe it was needed to give time for all the people he had helped in his life to call and visit him to give him thanks. He smiled and said that was a point of view he hadn’t thought.”
These insightful moments might not have been possible without the comfort and support hospice care facilitates. I would like to remind readers hospice is a special health care option for patients and families facing a terminal illness. A team including a doctor, nurses, social worker, chaplain and volunteers works together to address the physical, social, emotional and spiritual needs of each patient and family. Hospice is not about giving up hope or waiting to die; it is about living and experiencing comfort.
Preceptor Hospice can help you live your life to the fullest by providing care and compassion to help you and your family with the many questions and concerns that come at end-of-life. Hospice is an experience of care and support, different from any other type of care.
If you have questions about hospice, please email me at Kathleen.Weston@preceptorhhh.com or call me at 262-257-9824.
Preceptor Health Care
Director of Hospice Operations